Do I Have a Mother-in-Law of Monster-In-Law?

She is not from hell, but she is very challenging at times. She only has one son(my husband), it seems like she really don't want us to move out the house, but she does to move. She can be high maintanence and does work(let me rephrase she can't work). She is very dependent, I can't be around dependent people. Only dependent people that are around me are my children, and even they are not dependent. I have always been an independent individual. Her father(deceased) used to do things for her all the time, her son went every where in the city of Philadelphia for her, her brothers use to do a lot for her. It is not a question, I just needed to vent.